Break the Ice: 10 Questions to Get the Mentor Conversation Started
So you sit down to chat with your newly assigned mentor for the first time and wonder, “How are we going to get this mentor party started!?” I mean, you’ve got to mix the ingredients before you get to sip the martini!
Hopefully you’ve already looked at the application form to learn a little more about your mentor. You can certainly use some of those ideas to ask follow-up questions. Or, try one of these to get to know the professional as a person before getting down to business.
What hobby do you look forward to doing in your spare time?
What is the most fun experience you’ve had in the past year (or more)?
What is your favorite quote or motto?
What book has really changed your life or perspective?
What is the moment you are most proud of?
Where is your “happy place” or the most favorite place you have visited?
Who has been most influential in your life?
Dogs or cats: Who wins your heart? (Horses, ferrets, and chinchillas are also acceptable responses!)
What is a lesser-known skill or talent you have?
If you weren’t in your current job position, what would your alternate dream job be?
Once you’ve had some time to chat a bit about personal endeavors, learn more about the professional side with these 10 questions.